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Hooking Up After Craigslist: How Guyhop Can Help You Get Your Groove Back

If you’re currently mourning the disappearance of Craigslist’s personals section from your love life, you’re in good company. Millions of people just like you loved the way it was an absolutely awesome place to find simple, convenient, no-strings-attached sex whenever they were in the mood. This was especially the case for gay men, as it took a lot of the guesswork out of the process of finding a good hook-up candidate in the first place.

The shutdown happened back in March of this year as a response to the passing of the Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act. However, while the act was primarily meant to protect children from the possibilities of online sex trafficking, it couldn’t help but affect the grown, consenting adults that had come to count on Craigslist’s personals. According to Craigslist, there’s just too much

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Everything You Need to Know About Bottoming Like a Pro

Maybe you’ve tried it before and the experience just didn’t live up to your expectations. Maybe you’ve never tried it because you were worried it would hurt or you were ultimately scared off by the submissive factor. Maybe you’re really into the idea, but just don’t know how to do it right. Whatever the case may be for you personally, it’s not hard to understand why you might want to learn to be a good bottom.

The fact of the matter is there’s more to being great at bottoming than meets the eye at first. (This is even more the case if you’re looking to become a power bottom eventually.) Here we’ll go over everything you need to know to make sure the experience is a good one, both for you and for your partner.

1. There’s no such thing

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Gay Porn: “Good Idea” or “More Harmful Than Helpful”?

These days, porn isn’t really the dirty little secret it used to be back in the day. Now, people not only enjoy it, but it’s not uncommon for them to talk about it or openly express their interest in it. This is no less the case with gay porn than any other kind. In fact, if you’re a guy, gay or otherwise, you’ve probably not only watched porn at some point, but used it as a masturbation aid. If you’re like most guys, you do so on a regular basis regardless of whether or not you’re dating other guys at the time.

But is watching gay porn really a good idea? You’ve probably heard there are mental and physical benefits to it, but you’ve most likely heard a thing or two about how harmful it can be as well. So which is

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10 Surefire Ways to Tell Whether a Guy Is into You

Sometimes it’s easy to tell when a hot guy is totally scoping you out. Other times, figuring out whether or not someone’s both gay and into you in particular can be a lot more challenging, especially outside of a bar setting. After all, not everyone wears their intentions right there on their sleeves, especially when they’re gay and probably equally unsure about you.

It’s actually easier than you think to spot someone who’s totally into what you’re all about though. You just need to know what you’re looking for. Here we’ll go over some of the easiest ways to tell whether or not someone you’ve got your eye on is even gay in the first place. We’ll touch on how you can be sure he’s actually into you in particular as well.

1. He seems to only have eyes

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10 Frustrating Dating Dilemmas Gay Men Face

It goes without saying that finding people you really click with can be tough enough on its own these days. Then you have to worry about being on the same page as far as values, goals, and reasons for dating in the first place. Add in the way dating as a gay man in particular comes alongside its own share of unique obstacles and it’s not hard to see why so many of us feel so frustrated.

The good news is you’re not alone. You’re not doomed to a love life characterized by frustration and dissatisfaction either. The following are just a few of the most common dating dilemmas gay men today are facing, as well as some solid advice on what to do about them. Which ones are most familiar to you?

1. Judging Dating Success by the Wrong Criteria

Most heterosexual people had the advantage

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