Tips for Gay Dating and Gay Hookups

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9 Fantastic Dating Tips for Newly Out Gays

If you’re a gay man who’s fresh out of the closet, you should definitely be congratulated. Coming out is quite possibly one of the most difficult things any gay man has to do in his entire life, so it only makes sense that you’d have some pretty strong feelings right now. On the one hand, you no doubt feel like the world is your oyster from a dating standpoint, probably for the first time ever. On the other, you’re probably as terrified as you are excited and that’s also understandable.

It’s important not to sweat it too much though. Yes, dating as a fresh-out-of-the-closet gay man is challenging to say the least, but it’s also fun and thrilling. You’re about to start living your life on your terms and that life is going to

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Dating While Gay and Introverted: 9 Helpful Pointers to Keep in Mind

Dating as a gay man can be challenging enough as it is. Add shyness or introversion to the mix as well and the gay dating scene can seem positively intimidating. Only about 25-33% of the entire population is introverted by nature, so you’re already outnumbered by at least three to one. Plus, quite a few introverts actively pretend to be extroverts in order to fit in better, so it’s hardly surprising if you sometimes feel like the only introverted gay guy on the planet.

Even so, dating as an introverted gay man isn’t impossible. You will probably need to put a little more forethought and effort into things if you’re serious about having the quality experiences you deserve though. The following tips can help take the guesswork out of the process.

  1. Just be yourself.

If you're like most introverts, you’ve

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8 Tips for Scoring Great Gay Dates a Lot More Often

It probably goes without saying that dating is nothing if not a challenge here in 2018. This is the case even if you’re straight, but gay people tend to have their own unique obstacles to tackle on top of everything else. There’s certainly a fine art getting things just right, so it definitely pays to be open to learning.

The following guidelines are well worth considering for anyone who’d like to raise the bar when it comes to the quality of their dating life. However, they’re also things gay guys in particular would really do well to take more seriously. (Yes, sir. We’re looking at you.) Which ones have your attention?

  1. Learn to ask better questions.

We get it. You have to start somewhere when you’re trying to strike up a conversation with someone new, but still. You&

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8 Easy-To-Miss Clues That He Might Actually Be Gay

When it comes to spotting other gay people, a lot of us come equipped with a gaydar that’s spot on. Every so often though, we’ll run into someone that’s doesn’t really present as clearly gay or straight, leaving us stumped. Of course, if it’s super important that you know one way or the other, you can always just ask the person if they’re gay (and if you’re actually comfortable doing that, more power to you).

For those of us that aren’t quite that blunt, it’s definitely still possible to figure things out on your own. You just need to know what you’re looking for. After all, you can’t always tell definitively from scrutinizing someone’s mannerisms or looking at who they hang out with. Some of the

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How to End a Gay “Friends with Benefits” Relationship on Good Terms

If you’re a gay man that’s into casual sex, you probably don’t need to be told that a good FWB is worth his weight in gold. He’s definitely a friend, so you can totally be yourselves around each other. You can talk, laugh, and have a good time doing just about anything that strikes your fancy. Then when you’re horny, you get to enjoy all the benefits of sex without the drama that would usually come with it.

However, even really great friends-with-benefits relationships eventually come to an end. Maybe you’re developing feelings for the person that you’re just not comfortable with or maybe you’re just not feeling it anymore for whatever reason. Perhaps you’ve met someone else and want to explore a relationship with that person. Whatever the case may be,

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