There are lots of reasons why you might not want to just come right out and ask someone whether they're gay. Maybe you're super curious about a coworker or acquaintance you're crushing on, but don't want to risk making them uncomfortable. Maybe you're just not the type to ask people really personal questions about their love lives, but that hardly means you don't want to know.
Thankfully there are a lot of little tells and habits most non-open gay or bi guys have in common, so understanding what to look for can be pretty helpful in making an educated guess. The following are some good examples to be aware of.
1. He doesn't say much about his social life.
Sometimes it's not what someone says, so much as it's what they don't say. Every gay, bi, or queer person is different when it comes to how "out" they