Tips for Gay Dating and Gay Hookups

10 Tips for Being a Better Top

Whether you’re a dyed-in-the-wool, lifelong top or prefer to switch hit according to your whims, you naturally don’t need to be told what’s awesome about being in your position when it’s time to get down and dirty. However, it’s important not to assume that bottoms by nature are going to be into anything you do just by nature of being bottoms. There’s definitely an art to being a really good top and it’s something you’ll want to master at some point.

Here we’ll go over some of the most important things to keep in mind when it’s your turn to be the top in bed. We’ll cover some of the things die-hard bottoms out there wish tops understood as well. You’ll be bringing your A-game in

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Avoiding Mr. Wrong: 9 Gay Dating Red Flags to Look Out For

Even if you’re happily single and love playing the field, dating can still be a pretty frustrating experience. For every great guy you’re happy to have met, there seem to be twenty that turn out to have been complete wastes of your time and energy. At times, the sheer frustration of it all is almost enough to make you want to throw in the towel altogether.

Don’t swear off men altogether just yet though. It’s more than possible to spot a guy that’s not worth getting involved with before your relationship goes on too long and you find yourself emotionally invested. You just have to know what the red flags look like. Do you find yourself excusing the same bad behaviors over and over again? Do any of the following sound familiar or remind you of your own Mr. Wrong?

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Being Gay on Campus: 9 Persistent Myths and Misconceptions About College Gays and Gay Sex

It’s not just straight people that believe all those long-standing myths about gay or bisexual men. Lots of gay men are guilty of buying into some of the same misconceptions about other gay men. In fact, if a gay man is young enough to still be figuring things out as far as what it does and doesn’t mean to be gay, he may even believe certain myths in regards to himself.

The following are just a few of the most persistent falsehoods people still believe about young gay men, especially those that are living the college life. Whether you’re a young gay male in college yourself or simply remember the time when you were, the chances are pretty good that you’ve heard at least a couple of them. Do any of the following ring a bell?

  1. All gay men are flamboyant and
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9 Things to Keep in Mind When Dating Bisexual Men

Maybe you’re currently interested in a guy that just so happens to be bisexual. Maybe you’re simply in search of useful information that might come in handy one day in the event you ever are. Whatever the case may be, it’s only natural to wonder what might be different about dating a bi guy as compared to dating other gay men if you’re new to the experience.

In some ways, dating an amazing bisexual stud isn’t a lot different from dating anyone else, but it comes alongside its share of challenges as well. Here we’ll go over a few things every gay guy should keep in mind if he also dates or is interested in bisexual men. We’ll debunk a few stubborn myths as well as go over a few must-know tips for making sure things

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Suck Like a Pro: 12 Tips for Giving a Better Blow Job

While just about anyone can appreciate the wow factor a good blow job brings to the table, gay men may have the most thorough appreciation for them. Since most of us both give and receive, we definitely know what sets a good one apart. We often know from personal experience what you shouldn’t do when blowing a guy as well.

That said, if you’ve been itching to learn how to give a better blow job, you’ve come to the right place. The following tips and pointers are just a few of the things you’ll want to keep in mind the next time you treat a date to a little oral action down south.

  1. Embrace giving head for the fun experience it is.

Don’t let the word “job” throw you off. Yes, oral sex is a great way to

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